Hello my sweet sweet friends. As Pride month comes to a close soon, I wanted to do another post about this month. So I was on pinterest last night, and I saw a few quotes that I really felt could be amazing to talk about. The quotes are really simple, but they can say so much. You know that saying…a picture speaks 1000 words…ok well these do..and if you agree…let me know in the comments below. So here they are:
Love should not be determined by gender, it should not be determined by race, it should not be determined by height, weight or even your sexual orientation. Love should be determined by whats in the heart. What’s in the heart matters way more than anything else. (Written by me: Marvina)
We are all human. Who we love or what we look like should not matter. How can you judge someone for all of these characteristics when you are not the one that created humans? How can you tell someone who they should love, or what weight they should be or what color they should be, when you are not the one that created them? What gives you the right to be this judgmental? (Written by me: Marvina)
We are all humans, and with humanity comes diversity. Diversity is what makes our nation a nation. So I wanted to share this because it was so inspirational even though the pictures are so simple.
We all have those times when we let other’s dictate our lives for us. We all have those times when we go with what everyone else wants to do because it is what will make them happy…but what about what will make us happy. Here are 7 Ways that have helped me strive to stay happy and not give people the control over my life.
Stop Comparing Yourself To Others! There are times when I think “Ok I wish I looked like her or I love her dress, wish I had that.” But I shouldn’t do that because maybe what they have, they don’t really like, or maybe it might look horrible on me…so don’t compare yourself to others. You are great the way you are.
Have Your Own Style. Create a style that you love and go with it. Whether that’s wearing hippy clothes, or dresses all of the time, or like me; a pair of jeans and a t-shirt with sneakers…whatever your style is….create one and go with it. If people hate it, who cares, it makes you happy and it’s who you are.
Find A Bright Side to Every Situation. Something that I love doing, is to try and find the bright side of things. Even if I am scared out of my mind, I try to think of a bright side to it. For example, lets say you get into a car accident…everyone is ok…but the car is totaled and you have a huge bill or something….ok well the bright side is that everyone is alright. Yes you may have to pay for repairs for the car or get a new car, but you can’t replace people, so there’s a bright side to something.
Have a Gratitude Journal. Find something in each day or week to be grateful for. I’ve talked about this on my blog before, which I will leave a link for the post below. There is always a rainbow after the rain…basically meaning that there is always something to be grateful for, even if your day has gone so wrong, you have had such a bad day…find the rainbow…
Meditate, Pray, or have Quiet Time. Ok so at my house, I have what I call “quiet time” for my toddler. It’s a way for him to relax, take a nap or play quietly for an hour or so. By doing this, I can have my time…same goes with adults. You have to have those times where you have time to quiet your mind. I love meditation, but I also love yoga and reading. Which brings me to my next suggestion.
Read. Reading is something I love and I hope that you grow to love it too. Reading can be so enjoyable, educational and also peaceful. I’ve recently read a really good book and I’m on another really good book, that I will eventually share…but the one I’m talking about in this one is “Note to Self.” I did a review on this book because it was so inspiring and just beautifully written, which I will leave the link to the post below if any of you want to check it out. However, reading can really make you happy because you go to another place other than the place where you are at…plus it can help quiet your mind.
Exercise. Last but not least, exercise. This is something that everyone talks about but that’s because it’s true. Exercise, releases endorphins which makes you happy. You are getting all that stress out so that you can have peace in your mind and focus and be happier. I’m not a doctor but you get the point.
Whatever you do…Do things that make you happy. The more you do what makes you happy, the less time you will be spending thinking of things that make you stressed out or unhappy. The more you do things that make you happy, the more you will enjoy your life and the people around you.
Hello my sweet sweet friends. Have you ever felt like you just didn’t fit in? Have you ever felt like the odd ball out but didn’t know why? Have you ever thought about why you feel different? These are some questions that I want to ask you because being different is a common thing these days. Everyone is their own person, everyone has their own opinions and things that make them who they are…and you shouldn’t hide them; even if you don’t fit in with the “it” crowd. As some of you may known, this month is PRIDE month and I think that being different has a lot to do with that. Today I’m going to share 5 reasons on how you can be a master at being different. Lets get started shall we?……
Embrace your UNIQUENESS.Being different means that you have your own unique style about you. You may have something that makes you stand out among-st the crowd. For me…I have big eyes…I guess you can say…but I feel they are the best part of me, because I love my eyes.
Don’t pretend to be someone else!You may want to be someone else because they are popular, or good looking or good at something. You may even change the way you dress, the foods you eat, etc…because you want to be this person; but what will happen when you lose yourself? What will happen when your friends start noticing you are acting different? What happens if you lose all your friends in the process of trying to be someone you are not? Will you be happy? Probably not, so don’t try to be someone else because who you are is who God made you to be. If people don’t accept you for who you are, then they are not worth keeping in your life.
Have an OPENED MIND.When you have an opened mind, more people are willing to be friends with you.
Learn courage.Everyone wants to be strong. You want to feel like you can conquer the world. Well you can because being different teaches you that you have to have courage. You have to be brave enough to not want to fit in but to stand out.
Remember, you bring a little something-something to the world.By being different, you bring a bit of sparkle and life to the world. This world would be boring if everyone was the same. Everyone would be predictable and then what would be the point of having all the different races, sexes, etc?
IT’S OK TO BE DIFFERENT. EMBRACE IT, BE BRAVE, BE WHO GOD MADE YOU TO BE AND BRING THAT SOMETHING-SOMETHING THAT MAKES PEOPLE GO…I WANT TO BE DIFFERENT TOO!!!
Hello my sweet sweet friends. Hope you are having a great weekend….mine is spent sick and packing for our trip to Disneyland this coming week. So today’s topic has to do with YOU. As some of you may know I just read a book called Note to Self and it was amazing. Because that book was so amazing, I’ve decided to try and base my posts around that book with some of my own thoughts and ideas…so here we go.
How many of you think about what you want? How many moms out there think about what you want? When you become a parent, it becomes all about your kids and I know because I am a mom. When you live with your parents, it is usually not about you. When you are with your significant other, you can’t always think about what you want…however that should change.
Thinking about what YOU want is important to your everyday mental state. You need to make sure that you put yourself first sometimes. It’s not a selfish thing to think about YOU sometimes. For example…lets say you want to be an artist, but your parents really want you to be a doctor…what do YOU want? You can’t always put your parent’s thoughts first, you will eventually have to decide for yourself what you want out of life, in a relationship, what type of person you want to be with, etc…You just need to and there is nothing wrong with that. Knowing what you want, is what can really make you happy.
So that is all for today’s post. I hope that someone got something out of this and you just remember that it is ok to put yourself first sometimes.
Question for the weekend:
Have you ever put yourself first…if so when was it…how did it feel?
Hello my sweet sweet friends. So I have to share this book with you that I recently read and I’m sure a lot of you will love it. I recently read the book “Note to self, by Connor Franta.” It was an amazing book and I totally recommend it to everyone. So I’m going to do a quick review of the book, and then I will share why I’m putting this on my blog…Alright, so lets get into it….
First of all this book was written beautifully…I could not believe how much emotion was in this. Basically, for anyone who hasn’t heard of this book, it’s about this 24 year old young man, who is gay, who basically shares his diary or journal with the world. In this book you will find poetry that he’s written, photos which are breath taking and through everything, you see who he really is. I can’t really express enough how amazing this book was. I read it in about 2-3 days, its got about 308 pages, but it’s so worth it. So why am I putting this on my blog?
This book has a lot in it. It has diversity, it has sexual orientation, it’s got mental illness…it’s got a lot and to be honest, it’s all really relateable…especially to our generation…I’m 27 going on 28 years old and a lot of what he talked about I could relate…I felt like I was living his life with him; which might sound weird but it’s true. I almost cried through this book because he talks about things that are relevant in today’s generation… like depression…and how he got through it. So if you are into books like this.. where basically someone is sharing their life, I recommend you pick it up, go check it out…it’s just beautiful. You can get it off amazon, the bookstore…just go pick it up…you won’t regret it.
This all being said…May was Mental Health Awareness Month and June is LGBT Pride Month and because of that…I want to talk about some things that I feel are not talked about. This book inspired me so much and I can’t wait to start writing the blog posts that I have planned dealing with these types issues and more. Stay tuned for all of those posts.
Ok, hope you all had an amazing week and that you all have an amazing weekend.
Connor Franta also has a Youtube channel if you want to check him out that way as well.